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What guidance is well placed to help with
- course availability, prerequisites, and timetable feasibility;
- the student’s OSSD status;
- credit recovery, summer/night/e-learning, adult education, or board options;
- application procedures and school-submitted grades;
- referrals to student success, special education, social work, mental-health support, administration, or community resources;
- school forms, deadlines, and local processes.
What guidance cannot guarantee
A counsellor cannot guarantee admission, an offer date, a scholarship, OSAP amount, a co-op job, residence, professional licensing, or how a university will exercise program-specific discretion.
The right response to uncertainty is often a contact or source—not a confident guess.
The five-minute preparation sheet
Write:
Decision or problem: one sentence.
Deadline: exact date and who set it.
Current facts: courses, marks, credits, application/program, or documented issue.
What has already been tried: teacher conversation, form, timetable request, admission email, support.
Three questions: the most important first.
Bring the evidence
Depending on the meeting:
- current timetable and course requests;
- credit/graduation summary;
- relevant report card or mark breakdown;
- exact program and campus links;
- prerequisite table;
- IEP or accommodation concern;
- email or portal notice;
- documented reason for an absence or disruption, shared only as appropriate;
- proposed solution and backup.
High-value questions by situation
Course selection
- Which selected courses are guaranteed versus requests?
- What prerequisite does each critical course require?
- What is the backup for a conflict or cancellation?
- What is the last date to change?
Graduation
- Can we review every remaining OSSD item by category?
- What is the student’s literacy, community-hours, and online-learning status?
- Which requirement is at risk, and what approved completion route exists?
Applications
- Which grades/courses has the school sent, and when is the next transmission?
- Is the application information accurate?
- Which question should go directly to admissions?
A failed, dropped, or missing course
- What appears on the student record?
- Which recovery routes are available and when?
- How does each route affect graduation timing and prerequisites?
Learning or wellbeing support
- Who is the correct case lead?
- What immediate classroom change can be tried?
- How will it be documented and reviewed?
- What is the urgent/safety route if the situation worsens?
Close the meeting with ownership
Before leaving, read back:
- what the student will do;
- what the counsellor/school will do;
- who else must be contacted;
- the next deadline;
- when the plan will be reviewed.
Send a short follow-up email if the issue is consequential. This creates a shared record without making the tone adversarial.
If the meeting did not solve it
Ask who owns the next decision. It may be a teacher, special-education lead, student-success teacher, vice-principal/principal, board department, application centre, admissions office, accessibility office, or another service.
Escalation works best when the family can state the unresolved question, previous step, requested remedy, and relevant deadline calmly.
Should a parent attend every guidance meeting?
Not necessarily. Student self-advocacy is valuable. A parent or support person may be useful for a younger student, a complex record, accessibility or language support, a serious deadline, or when the student asks. Respect age, consent, and school access rules.
